Hi. I’m new here.
I started 2 rounds of ivf egg donation in 2012. The 1st round was a straight up negative result. The second round in September however was a positive & I then proceeded to miscarry at 12 weeks.
I have been having counselling each week for the past 16weeks at a pregnancy crisis place & felt I was getting somewhere. I was ready to talk about the miscarriage & look forward to distressing so we could try again with a match we possible have in September.
That was until my sister in law decided that after 3 weeks of being with her new boyfriend she’s pregnant & I wish that she could lose her baby do she could remotely feel how I feel & what I go through everyday & take on board her comments of its one of those things , you’ll get over it!
My mum doesn’t know I had the second miscarriage due to her response on the 1st negative of I hate kids why would you want one! My dad doesn’t understand, nor do my parents in law as they don’t understand anything.
I’ve cried for the past 48 hours & don’t want to see my sister in law anymore.