7dp3dt BFN :-(


#1

So I am currently 7dp3dt and the hpt read bfn. I’m devastated. My Beta is in 3 days and I’m at the point where I don’t even want to go. Yesterday I could have swore I saw the faintest of lines on the hpt but now I know it was just wishful thinking.


#2

I wouldn’t give up hope just yet. :slight_smile:


#3

You’re too early to count yourself out I had negatives 7 and 8dp3dt and my DD is 2.5 now !


#4

You’re too early to count yourself out I had negatives 7 and 8dp3dt and my DD is 2.5 now !


#5

with a day 3 transfer that is too early!!! you could test even on beta day on a evil pee stick and still get a negative and be pregnant if your hcg is on the lower end. my dd who is 9 would have tested just that way. my beta was 44…would not have shown on a pee stick.
my advice stay away from pee sticks!


#6

[QUOTE=Ally6181]So I am currently 7dp3dt and the hpt read bfn. I’m devastated. My Beta is in 3 days and I’m at the point where I don’t even want to go. Yesterday I could have swore I saw the faintest of lines on the hpt but now I know it was just wishful thinking.[/QUOTE]
Too early!! I was neg 12 days after retieval. DS is now 6!! Hang in there!!


#7

I agree with everyone else…stay away from the pee sticks…and it’s not to late…stay positive…:grouphug: :pray:


#8

8dp3dt and still negative… my beta has been moved up to tomorrow 9dp3dt and I know this cycle did not work. I have been crying all morning and I just dont know what to do. This was my 6th cycle and at this point I dont think I will ever have a baby. I know I am being very negative but I just cant find a positive bone in my body at this point.


#9

[FONT=‘Comic Sans MS’][SIZE=3]Ally6181 – I’m sorry you are feeling disappointed. But I’m sure there is a protocol that will help you achieve your THB. Don’t give up. Have you been seeing the same RE for all of your IVF cycles? Maybe you need a second opinion approach with a different RE? I wish you all the best. :babydust: [/SIZE][/FONT]


#10

Ally6181-I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Many of us been there where we wanted to give up. I’m so sorry my heart really goes out to you. I agree with trying with a different RE :grouphug: :grouphug:


#11

Yes i have been seeing an RE specializing in immune issues. My last cycle was the first cycle I ever received a BFP after introducing the neupogen to my protocol (ended in a m/c), but I had a bad feeling with the cycle from the moment the 3dt was set. I only had 7 eggs retrieved this cycle, but 6 fertilized. 3 were immature so they were icsi’d a day later then the other 3. The 3 they put in were 8 cell grade A on day 3. The other 3 that were a day behind they grew out to day 5 and only 1 made it to blast and it has been frozen with 4 others I had from a previous cycle (the 4 from a previous cycle were also frozen on day 3) so when I do the next cycle which will be a FET they will thaw the 4 d3embryos and transfer whatever makes it to blast. I would have preferred them grow all of the 6 embryos to day 5 and seen what made it to blast. I just have this feeling that the 3 embryos they put back in didnt even make it to blast.


#12

[FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=4]I found this quote for you. Don’t give up! Chin up and I hope you have a better day :flower:[/SIZE][/FONT]

[SIZE=4][FONT=Comic Sans MS]“I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”[/FONT]
[FONT=comic sans ms, cursive]Thomas Edison[/FONT] [/SIZE]


#13

I have seen 3 Re’s so far and I have been with this one for the past 3 years and I have always yielded the best egg quality and quantity with him. This cycle was a little different b/c I took a year break from all treatment and cycling and I believe my endo has gotten worse and is adhearing to parts of my ovaries which would decrease egg quantity. No dr will do another surgery on me to remove the endo b/c I have already had 7 surgeries (do to endo) and the risk is too great ( I have been to 4 different endo specialists and they all have concluded the same thing). I really feel comfortable with my RE and I get the feeling that he wants me preggers just as much as I do. He has even done some “pro bono” cycles for me. Deep down I feel if I am to get pregnant, he would be the one to do it. But thank you ladies for all your kind words and encouragement. After I get the dreaded results of tomorrows beta, I will be gearing up for a FET. Can only hope that it will be my lucky #7 :cross:


#14

You are still really early With my daughter I didn’t get my first super faint positive until the evening of 8dp3dt (that morning it was stark white BFN) my beta wasn’t until 4 days later and that was only moved up because I was bleeding so heavily. I am really surprised your clinic is doing a beta that early. I wouldn’t count yourself out just yet


#15

I had to go in for immulogical blood panel tomorrow and I was crying hysterically to my Re today on the phone about the bfn hpt so he said we will do a beta tomorrow at 9dp instead of 10dp like planned. He said if I’m preggers at all he would see that in the bloodwork but to be prepared bc if it is positive it won’t be a high number but that would be expected testing this early. I think he is doing it so I stop torturing myself.


#16

With my dd we did iui and didn’t get a positive hot til 17 dpo ad she had a disappearing twin. You never know. Best of luck to you.


#17

Just as I expected… Cycle #6= BFN. Going to go on to a FET cycle, but I’m not sure how much more of this disappointment I can take. I’m completely heartbroken once again :frowning:


#18

4 days after 5et hpt negative

I’m 4 days after 5ET and couldn’t stop from doing hpt :frowning: and it’s negative and I feel so upset… I don’t feel anything … Not even cramping … First time doing IVF and found out everything that can go wrong after it went wrong… Just wanted to ask if anyone got negative hpt and still was pregnant ???


#19

[QUOTE=burg]I’m 4 days after 5ET and couldn’t stop from doing hpt :frowning: and it’s negative and I feel so upset… I don’t feel anything … Not even cramping … First time doing IVF and found out everything that can go wrong after it went wrong… Just wanted to ask if anyone got negative hpt and still was pregnant ???[/QUOTE]

Totally. I was negative 4dp5dt and got a positive the very next morning. :slight_smile:


#20

Thanks I feel much better now :slight_smile: ok I will wait couple more days and try again… I am going to have BW on 24 and my HB birthday is on 25 so I really hopping that he can get his wish :):cross: