Hi everyone – I am new to this board but I have read many of the posts and have taken a lot of comfort from the boards the last four days. Just a quick background b/c I am looking for advice / experience / help from the knowledgable women here. I am 39 – froze my eggs when I was 36 at CCRM to preserve my fertility. Never met “the one” so decided to move forward as a single mom by choice. I always joked with my Dr. at CCRM, “I don’t have a fertility problem, I have a boyfriend problem.” Turns out the joke was on me – in April I transferred two CCS tested normal embryos and they believe both implanted based on my high hcg levels. Unfortunately, I had a miscarriage on Weds and lost them both. Because the embies has been genetically tested and were great, the probability I would lose both is sub <1%, so now they are focused on me and my body. I had a full uterues check pre-implantation and that was really good, so Dr. thinks my body is rejecting the embies and I may have an auto-immune defect or my PCOS is interferring somehow with my pregnancy.
Here are my questions – and please any / all responses are appreciated. 1) Anyone else face this auto-immune issue? 2) How did they treat it? What did they recommend? 3) Where you able to have a baby once they figured out what was wrong and how to treat it? 4) Any advice you can give me on moving forward with this?
I am so sad and scared – I feel like God doesn’t want this for me. Please help if you can.