I am just one of the unlucky ones that fall in the 40% category. Hoping and praying next frozen cycle is the BFP my DH and I have been waiting for. I’m going to start taking really good care of my mind and body. Surprisingly I am not sad, i have been prepared for the bad news. Mostly because I havent felt my embryos moving since last Thursday night (7dp6dt) and my HPT have been negative since 5dp6dt. I also actually felt like crap a few days after retrieval, so maybe my body just not in a good state at the time.