girls i’m left with decission i just cant make. i was going to start trying for my 2nd child. i had a plan. cole is 9 month old and still breast feeding. i wanted to BF till 2 years. but i also wanted to go back to work pergnant. so with 3 months left on my maternity leave we went to the clinic to get started again. we have to do iui with doner sperm. for cole, i did one cycle iui natural. and got pregnat on my 2nd cycle iui wityh clomid. 4 us once we decided to use a doner attaining pregnacy was fast. so we bought enough sperm for 3 cycles since it only took 2 cycle with cole. but now that i’m BFing the dr. says i cant take clomid. he doesn’t even recomend proceeding with fertility treatment naturally untill i wean the BFing. some thing about uterus contracting when bf and lineing tining making it harder to attain pregnacy. and since we only have 3 tries with the same doner left and want the next child genetical matched. if we had unlimited spem i wouldn’t mind trying nutral and bfing. but i feel i would rather just start with clomid since that is the cycle that worked for us. i dont want to get down to the 3rd try and have that pressure on me nor do i want to get down to the 3rd try and have to switch to ivf cuz that will streach the spem. finacially it doesn’t make sense to do ivf when it is not medically nessassary. but the thought of not bfing cole has me in tears. i feel i have to chose between cole and getting pregnant again. i know i can just post pone the 2nd child till i’m ready to wean. but we all know how long a journey our infertility is. i feel i’ve postponed long enough.
has anyone bf while on clomid. or had to wean earlier than they wanted to strat fertility treatment again.