I am not sure if this forum is perfect fit for this discussion… but here is my situation.
Around same time last year I lost promotion to a person less qualified and skilled than me just because she has worked in this organization for longer duration than me. I accepted it only because I am TTC and don’t mind not giving up on career front. Time and again I feel my skills are under utilized but I have continued working in my current works place because:
- Health coverage is good - covers 100% drug costs
- Boss is super nice and don’t mind me working from home and coming late to work. Sometime I don’t even put my day offs through database, so I actually get more vacation than what I am eligible for.
Few days ago I came across wonderful job opportunity and my husband said see what is there in the market take the interview. I went for the interview yesterday and besides I was told that the company is very picky I received email immediately yesterday evening that they want to go ahead for the second round of interview.
Now I am confused a bit because this job might make me busy, clinic is far away from new work place. Also I am not sure how my new boss is going to be in terms of time offs.
I asked my husband and he does not have any opinion. He is very liberal. He simply said you have to see if you will be able to manage treatments with busier job. My only fear is that if there is any problem with treatments in future he might just say its your fault you should have judged how you were going to manage time. It has happened before. He is very sweet at heart but short tempered. He actual said sorry after the fact but that does not reduce my guilty feel. (infertility is due to flows in me)
Sorry for such a long post, but what would you do in such a case? Should I go for the second round? I need opinions at this point my brain is not helping me.