Well, this is going to vary wildly depending on alot of factors, but for us, having 2 children already, and being limited financially in how much we could afford, 2 was our absolute limit!!
I started out thinking that we had 1 try at it as we simply didnt have a lot of money to throw at it. But since we found a cost effective clinic, we couldve done another attempt if the first one had failed. After 2 attempts, i think we wouldve perhaps started the process for adopting thru the foster care system. OR- just been done.
If we were childless and not open to adoption…then it would be a different story, but I cant speculate on how many attempts we wouldve tried because we werent in that situation.
I can certainly understand your wanting to be “Done” with it and just get pregnant already!!! I really am that this time is the last time!!