I am so disappointed in my husband right now. He had his semen analysis last Friday and was told he could get his results today. I reminded him he would need to call the RE and let them know it was okay for me to know the results as well.
Well, after numerous texts and calls - he didnt do it. So today at my u/s they couldnt tell me anything. I dont think he understands how stressful this all is. I go to numerous u/s a month, I take pills that make me feel crazy and I stress about it all. All he had to do was make 1 call (1 min. probably).
It also took him over a month to even go in for the analysis. He fought me tooth and nail over it. I really thought he was going to bail the day of his appointment. He said he did it “so he didnt have to hear about it for 10 years”.
All the nurse could tell me is not to worry. But how can I not worry! I take so much time and effort into this and he knows I am very detailed orientated.
My husband is big on family. In fact, he gets mad if I tell someone a number when they ask how many kids I want. He feels the right answer is “however many I can have”, yet he wont help.
UGH… I am so frustrated and hurt. But even when I tell him this wont sink in. My husband is a doctor and it scares me to think how little compassion he has.
Sorry just needed to vent. Sitting in my office crying was doing enough.