When a fertile wants to have a baby, well she and her partner have a baby.
When an infertile wants to have a baby, she must first make the RE appointment get the SA, the HSG. decide which treatment, how much is too much? is this all really worth it? (yes of course) then decide to spend the dollars. How strong is our relationship? does my partner want this as bad? everything needs to be considered and scrutinized. Then they tell us to just relax, take a holiday, etc.
I am venting and whats the worst part? it’s standing still and not doing anything, which is where I am at. I have a plan, but it’s going to take atleast six more months of saving, so that means six more months of obsessing. :grr: