Finally, I've got an update I was longing for so long


#1

Hello everyone!
I had tough times and haven’t posted anything here. However, I have big changes. I found a clinic in Ukraine to have surrogacy there, we signed a contract and after 2 months of waiting we realized that nothing happened. We argued with a manager and doctors, we asked why they did nothing but the only reply was “We are sorry, you need to be patient and wait till we find a surrogate mother for you”. To say I was crazy with anger at them that I made a hasty decision to stop cooperating with that clinic. Of course my impressions about Ukraine became awful. I didn’t get why so many people go there and how it happened that they are satisfied. We were going to get back home but were recommended to visit another clinic. In a nutshell, we signed a contract and were told that they could find a surrogate mother within a month. Of course we didn’t believe as we heard such things before. However we hoped they were more responsible. And they are. On May 8 I got an email which has it “your surrogate mother is pregnant. hcg level is 619”. No need to describe my happiness.
Today she had an ultrasound scan (6 weeks + 2 days). She is pregnant with twins!!! Heartbeats are strong and rhytmic…that’s my babies. I still can’t believe it happens for real.
Sending hugs to all of you xxx


#2

Wow, that’s such great news. My congratulations. So happy everything ended up in positive result. Good you tried it with another clinic… Better not to judge from one place … though I know such situations often make bad impression of the whole country. I wonder what clinics are those you are mentioning … That’s just I’m about to go into the process with one of them in Ukraine as well. I’ve heard a lot of favourable feedbacks about it… but would like to ensure I’m doing the right thing and avoid any possible contingencies and not hesitate …x


#3

gosh, poor you!!!
how could they act like this? that’s embarrassing!!! I’m glad you have changed the clinic but May I ask one question?
We also have opted for a surrogacy in Ukraine. Today is our first scan, we are waiting for the results. We are with biotex and my question is about your first clinic? if it’s not a secret could you name it? I’m curious because we had a list of ukrainian clinics and chose this one…
My clinic has good rate and feedbacks, we didn’t expect to feel so comfortable with them, and we didn’t wait for so long as you with your first one.
but it’s not about that, just take my congrats and wish you happy and safe pregnancy!!!


#4

I’m joining the chat! We have surrogacy in Ukraine too. Our surrogate mom is pregnant now.
It seems we waited for this event more than one life can last. These are the most exciting times we’ve ever had.
We had a previous experience of infertility treatment with no results in other country. It’s our past. We can’t unmake it as well as we can’t make up for the time we lost. We weren’t disappointed in Ukraine.
Everybody knows there are several different clinics which can provide the costumers with surrogacy but our search wasn’t too long. We like our choice in Ukraine and want them to continue working the way they used to work.
My best wishes to you and your future babies! Take care of your health! good luck dear! XXX


#5

lilly_d
Thank you! yes yes, it’s hard to stay cool when everything is going out f your control.
We’ve also made a research and relied on general information but didn’t pay much attention to clients’ reviews. It was our fault after all. I would like not to mention the name of the first clinic. I don’t want someone to think I’m trying to black mouth the clinic. There are still clients there and I’m sure some of them are satisfied. I PM you with their names.
I’d recommend you to read as much information in different communities as you can find. Women often discuss small but important details which could be crucial for one.
Wherever you start, I wish you nothing but the best xx


#6

ladybird345, yep. I don’t know what did they expect me to do when they give nothing but promises. It was a huge stress when we were tearing up a contract, we also lost some money so you can imagine what situation we were in.
Oh so nice, I’m with the same clinic! It’s the second we chose, I hope the last :slight_smile: I PMed you with its name, I’m sure it was in your list as it’s quite popular. I’m sure we have no reasons for worries as we see real results and not just words guaranteeing success in a week/a month/a year. But what about your scan? Is your babe okay?
Thank you for kind words! Sending you lots of love x


#7

[QUOTE=“Mydreammore, post: 1870621, member: 87459”]I’m joining the chat! We have surrogacy in Ukraine too. Our surrogate mom is pregnant now.
It seems we waited for this event more than one life can last. These are the most exciting times we’ve ever had.
We had a previous experience of infertility treatment with no results in other country. It’s our past. We can’t unmake it as well as we can’t make up for the time we lost. We weren’t disappointed in Ukraine.
Everybody knows there are several different clinics which can provide the costumers with surrogacy but our search wasn’t too long. We like our choice in Ukraine and want them to continue working the way they used to work.
My best wishes to you and your future babies! Take care of your health! good luck dear! XXX[/QUOTE]

Welcome to our club of Ukrainian surrogacy fans Mydreammore :slight_smile: I’ve just replied you in another thread.
Well, you had fertility treatment before but where? It would be interesting to hear something about Georgian or Greek surrogacy centers. They also have pretty good and attractive offers. However, in comparison to surrogacy in Canada or US, European fertility clinics are extremely affordable.
Take care :wink:


#8

[QUOTE=“harami.lana, post: 1870637, member: 87422”]Welcome to our club of Ukrainian surrogacy fans Mydreammore :slight_smile: I’ve just replied you in another thread.
Well, you had fertility treatment before but where? It would be interesting to hear something about Georgian or Greek surrogacy centers. They also have pretty good and attractive offers. However, in comparison to surrogacy in Canada or US, European fertility clinics are extremely affordable.
Take care ;)[/QUOTE]
Thank you Dear I feel I’m a member of Ukrainian Surrogacy club for a great while, indeed. We planned our journey according our knowledge of this country. So what more can I say about Greece or Georgia? Ukraine is as usual more attractive because of the price for the services.
We even can’t compare Ukrainian centers for human reproduction with American analogues.
You know that a lot of Americans decide that it’s better to have a flight to Ukraine than waste money in USA.
and they actually know the truth. it’s really cheaper to be in touch with Ukraine.


#9

Thank you for kind words! Sending you lots of love x[/QUOTE]
Hello, sorry I’ve just noticed your reply, .
It’s been a long you wrote here, right? How are you ? How’s your journey is moving on? Have you got a positive result with your new clinic?
Thanks for asking, we are great, my baby is great, a scan showed there are no worries about. My surrogate is feeling great as well, she is so nice as my manager told us. We would bring her a little necklace in acknowledgment of her help. it was just our first scan, and our manager told us we would be able to meet the surrogate after 12 weeks of the pregnancy. It would be in 2 weeks, so exciting. I’m afraid of this meeting, I afraid of starting a conversation, I’m not sure I would be able to find rights words. Thanks God, an interpreter would be with us (Yaryna told us, our manager)


#10

Friends of mine passed surrogacy with biotexcom 2 years ago. They were advised to use donor eggs. Only positive experience. New mum kept on saying they did right to have flown that far for the treatment. Their srrogate was only 23 yo, healthy with proven fertility. (She has a kid of her own). And as far as I know, they still keep in touch…:smiley: Personally I find it amazing!


#11

Congratulations for the positive news. Personally i have been through surrogacy in Ukraine. And i can say that they were the best. So it just depends which clinic you went to. Bio tex has quality services regarding surrogacy. Nevertheless, now that you have been successful. I do wish you the best. Often couples who are faced with consistent failure with many fertility treatments may consider surrogacy as the last resort if they want a child who is genetically related, that is, the baby shares one or both partner’s DNA. Also in certain cases this is the last resort for those with health issues or for LGBT couples. Since this is certainly not an easy way out stress becomes natural to surrogacy. Fertility specialists are of the opinion that the emotional burden associated with surrogacy is equally important to deal with just as the financial and legal aspects.


#12

Of course one gets things to share only after experiencing. My friends who underwent surrogacy in biotex, weren’t 100% sure until they came across Shabana’s blog. This woman lives in the UK. She was going through the process with the clinic and was able to answer all the questions. So one may contact her first before contacting the clinic as she has relationships within the clinic. She will give you faster responses than if you had contacted the clinic yourself. She also has a network of folks all around the world who are pursuing surrogacy in Ukraine. Shabana was able to connect them to a couple from Seattle who took home their twins some time ago. The father of the twins took the time to talk on the phone, and thoroughly reassured us that it was a legit legal process, and that medically, they are very sound and advanced, and that bringing the twins back to the US hadn’t been an issue at all.