Ok here goes, if you will bear with me I will try to get my whole history for completions sake. I would really appreciate it if someone could tell me what the next step is as I can not seem to get satifactory answers from my doctor.
1996 - Went on Depo Provera, someone said it makes :af: go away and the sister at the clinic didn’t tell you the risks or dangers. The sister even came to school to give the girls their injections. :af: stayed away and I thought I had reached my goal. I didn’t want to get married or have kids at this stage.
02/2008 met DH
03/2008 DH moved in, we knew it was ment to be
03/2008 last Depo shot as we were planning to get married and if a kid came before the wedding it was the way it was suppose to be.
09/2009 married DH
05/2010 gyne put me on Glucophage but only said it would help with weight loss
05/2011 went back to Gyne and he said to carry on taking the glucophage
01/2012 was sick of taking pills and asked a fertility specialist why my gyne put me on them. He diagnosed PCOS with insulin resistance. Carried on with Glucophage and FS recomended a high protein low carbohidrate diet.
04/2012 started on diet, FS said not to lose more than 30kg in one go as you need to give your skin time to contract.
09/2012 l lost 30kg and according to the FS needed to stop for 6 monthes.
04/2013 need to start on diet again as I need to lose another 30kg
The doctors in SA keep telling me that before they will put me on anything I need to lose 60kg and keep the weight off for 1 year and the way to do it is with this high protein diet. I have however read that protein makes your CM very acidic which creates a hostile enviroment for sperm to live inand they only live for 4 hours and not 4 days as they are suppose to.
Now even though we may want to, DH and myself can’t have sex every 4 hours as we both work …lol…
The FS says I sould change jobs as I have a very stressful job and he doesn’t think that the stress is helping. Who in todays world can just change jobs?
I need help, what is the next step and is there something I can take to get my CM less acidic?
The doctors here are :grr:
DH is becoming worried that he is getting too old, as he always says he doesnt want to be 60 when his kid goes to college.