I am brand new to this site and am devastated. I don’t know who to turn to but I feel like this is a community of women (and men!) who understand and can offer hope.
My DH and I have been TTC for 5+ years. As you can see in my signature after dozens of IUI’s and IVF’s all failed, we just moved on to DEm FET. We did not step into Donor Emb lightly but once we did, we embraced this with our whole heart.
We have no medical issues other than old eggs. So we did Donor Em FET two weeks ago and the 30+ HPT’s upstairs are all negative. My beta is tomorrow morning and I don’t even want to go.
If a doctor says your own eggs/sperm are bad and suggested donor FET, then how can that fail if EVERYTHING else looks GREAT- perfect actually was what the embryologist called our two hatching embryos.
Before we do this again I want to be armed with more information. My doctor doesn’t believe in immune issues but what else can it be?
I would love to hear from any of you that finally found the magic embryos and if you did anything different or sought out immune testing.
Isn’t kind of rare for a Donor Em FET to fail?
I feel like I have failed my doctor, my husband and the lovely couple who produced beautiful embryos and so unselfishly gave us their gifts.
Thank you and all my thoughts are with you for the smell of a newborn baby in your arms.