I was at a Hanukkah party last night and a so called friend came up to me for a chat. She was telling me how adorable my daughter is and how big she has gotten. Then turns to me and asks when is #2! I wanted to scream “ask god b/c I have had 3 miscarriages!” Why do women ask such stupid questions… I would never ask a single woman “when are you getting married?”, or a married woman “when are you having kids?” B/c you don’t know what is going on in their lives! I have everything I need in life, a wonder DH and an adorable DD! If #2 comes either by me or adoption I will be blessed, but for right now can’t friends let me enjoy what I have instead of having expect more!!