I know it’s still early, but I’m hopeful and we are already wondering how to tell SD14 that I’m pregnant.
She is with us e/o weekend and holidays/summer. She is with us for Thanksgiving week and the week of Christmas. We are thinking that if all goes well, maybe tell her at the beginning of the Christmas holiday so she has time to adjust before going back to BMs house.
Background - BM and DH divorced 4 years ago, SD14 is the youngest of their 4 children. We do NOT have a good relationship with BM and I am afraid she will use our pregnancy negatively. (IE - your dad won’t have time for you, your dad will spend all his money on new baby, etc).
Any advice or suggestions?