So sorry to hear that you’re having such a hard time getting pregnant. For me, the hardest part of infertility has been failed IVF cycles. It’s one thing to try on your own or take meds, but with the cost, stress and intensity of IVF, I too found it difficult to deal with multiple failures.
There are a couple of threads going for multiple IVFers. Here is an active one: Any multiple IVFers out there?
It’s amazing when people get pregnant on their first IVF. You’re usually in a tough place by the time you get to IVF, and I wished it worked right away for everyone. Unfortunately, for some of us, it takes multiple tries.
Definitely join the thread. After 2-3 failed cycles is usually when it’s time to ask more questions: do I need to see another RE, is there something wrong with my protocol, is my body not responding, is there a problem with eggs/sperm/uterus that we haven’t identified, etc. This group is great for asking about next steps, what others have done, and what to ask your RE.
More than anything, it helps to know you’re not alone. There are women on these boards that have gone through multiple rounds, and when they’ve almost given up hope, it works at they make a beautiful, healthy baby, or two! Stay hopeful!! Come join us on the multiple IVF boards and everyone will be glad to support you and help through this difficult time.