I want to become a surrogate mother


#1

I am 28 years old and a mother of 3 children whose eldest is 9 years and the youngest 4 years. The father of my children died about a year ago. But during my 3 pregnancies, I had good sensations despite the few moments of discomfort and felt I was the center of interest of everyone. Something I would like to reiterate but without having to make children of other fathers among those I already have.

So I decided to become a surrogate mother to be able to relive these sensations and also to help those who are not able to bear it due to several reasons. I will be happy to be able to carry yours.

I want to notify that I do not make any distinction of sexual orientation or religious.

I propose to be your surrogate mother. Contact me at my e-mail: [email protected]


#2

Hello! It is great that you want to become a surrogate but the sole desire is not enough. Have you had any experience of being an SM before, do you have all of the tests and examinations results? Or have you done those?
It’s just very important for those who need surrogacy in order to have kids. I think it’s better to start off with checking everything possible and necessary for the surrogate mothers.
Anyways, I am sure the results will come out as great and I wish you the best of luck with your venture :slight_smile:


#3

Hi! It’s wonderful that you want to become surrogate and give this amazing gift to someone! I´m thinking about this option. I found this quite complet post that perhaps can help you in your journey :slight_smile:
https://mysurrogatemom.com/being-a-surrogate-mother
Do you know about any other resource online to learn about this process.


#4

This is so good dear. There are people out there who go a lot in search of a child. I am sure it will bring a lot of help in the table. It seems to me that you are first time SM. I mean like you have never done this before. but it is not bad that you want to try it out. But remember there are also rules that govern a surrogate mother. I have a friend who is a professional surrogate. She does surrogacy as part of her side work. But she is doing it independently. What of you? Are you going to be independent or under an agency? These are some of questions that you will be able to answer. Maybe you should know more concerning that. Where are you going to find a client. Remember as you are starting off, your price should be affordable. From all fertility procedures surrogacy tends to be the most expensive. This is because the couple has to pay for the process and the surrogate mother. So if your prices are negotiable. One client can refer another one to you too.


#5

This is so good dear. There are people out there who go a lot in search of a child. I am sure it will bring a lot of help in the table. It seems to me that you are first time SM. I mean like you have never done this before. but it is not bad that you want to try it out. But remember there are also rules that govern a surrogate mother. I have a friend who is a professional surrogate. She does surrogacy as part of her side work. But she is doing it independently. What of you? Are you going to be independent or under an agency? These are some of questions that you will be able to answer. Maybe you should know more concerning that. Where are you going to find a client. Remember as you are starting off, your price should be affordable. From all fertility procedures surrogacy tends to be the most expensive. This is because the couple has to pay for the process and the surrogate mother. So if your prices are negotiable. One client can refer another one to you too. But I would prefer you too Bio tex clinic. They offer the best services they are even running out of the economy package for 2018 so better hurry up. You can find more information here concerning them


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#6

Hey. How are you doing? Am sorry for the loss of your husband. I hope so that you are dealing well with it. I really can not believe people like you still exist in the world. You are doing this to help others. I am very happy for you. Risking your life to give happiness to other is really a big step. You deserve massive respect. I really appreciate your kindness. Will contact you soon.


#7

Hey! Hope so you are doing good. I just read your post and I’m glad to know that you want to be a surrogate for someone. It’s a very big thing to do. I appreciate you on doing this. People lose hope when they failed to get the surrogate. I think you should also contact with some fertility clinics providing surrogacy. It would be good for you and for the people to find s surrogate mother.


#8

Hey. I hope you are doing great. It is so wonderful to see people care about each other. You are being so selfless. I really appreciate it. Your efforts are remarkable. This is a greatest gift one could give to an infertile couple. Good luck for you future. God bless you xoxo


#9

Hi. This is actually a great idea. You sound like such an amazing person. Just by seeing this post I can predict your personality. You are extremely selfless. Helping someone like this is a huge deal. You will be giving someone their world. That has got to feel really good. I think you should join a certain agency or a fertility clinic. They can link you up with your best-matched couples. This also reduces the number of risks of this procedure. However, if you want to do it for a trusted relative, this won’t be required. But it is important to get it all legally sorted. Just to avoid problems in future. Good luck being a surrogate.


#10

Hi there, How are you? Hope Things are good at you side. Sad to know about your husband’s death. You took a very good decision. Being helpful to others is such a good job. Surrogacy is a miracle and surrogates are angels in my opinion. Hope You will succeed in your efforts.
be brave and stay blessed.


#11

Hey! This post just catches my attention. That’s so great of you to offer your services as surrogate. This is not a small thing. This needs courage. And you seem to be a beautiful soul. Thank you for existing. I just adore women’s like you. Who offer other to be their surrogate. You have the feeling for infertile women. We need more people like you in this world. This post really made me happy. Thank you for making my day.


#12

Hey, this post makes me so happy. Women who decide to become surrogate mothers are truly strong! I honestly, have massive respect for you all. The fact that you are willing to carry someone else’s child for 9 months when you have 3 of your own to take care of is just wonderful. I was once talking to a surrogate was telling me how her motive is just to help infertile couples. This made me so emotional. There are very few good people left in the society and surrogates are definitely one of them. I hope the very best of luck to you for your first surrogacy procedure.


#13

Surrogacy is a great solution for the infertile couples. In a very short span of time it has done the marvels that were never expected before. Today people all over the world are praising its worth for the infertile couples. In all this process a person that needs to be really apprreciated is the surrogate mom. In today’s world when most of the people are living a selfish life, it is very difficult to live a selfless life. A surrogate mom gives away everything for the hapiness of others. A surrogate mom need a big round of applause. She risks her life. She holds the happiness for someone else. She faces all the challenges of the pregnancy. She bears the pain of the delivery and labour.ultimately she gets nothing in the hands. If you want to be a surrogate it is better to get registered with a good clinic. Your physical fitness is a must. Unless you are physical fit you cannot do anything.Good luck in this journey of bringing happiness.


#14

Hello! It is great that you want to become a surrogate but the sole desire is not enough. Have you had any experience of being an SM before, do you have all of the tests and examinations results? Or have you done those?
It’s just very important for those who need surrogacy in order to have kids. I think it’s better to start off with checking everything possible and necessary for the surrogate mothers.
Anyways, I am sure the results will come out as great and I wish you the best of luck with your venture


#15

I’ve got loads of things to share about surrogacy process in Ukaine. 'Cause we’ve been through treatments there and are currently back for a sibling. So here we go I absolutely love the idea of coming for surrogacy to this very country. Firstly, because it’s surrogacy friendly law. The baby is considered to be yours from the moment of conception. The surrogate cannot stand any rights. She has no right to keep the baby after delivery which makes couples absolutely safe. The birth certificate is issues with the names of the intended parents, so the baby’s theirs. Eveything’s simple when being guided with professionals in this field. I know for sure our biotex helps the IP with obtaining the birth certificate and other legal services. Friends of mine had a trouble when being at the exit process. She had a single letter differed in their marriage certificate which caused them a huge trouble. But bio tex com helped them through and soon they could take their baby girl home. Surrogacy may be the blessing for many people. But in Ukraine surrogacy is allow for heterosexual married couples only.
Surrogacy process goes on like this.
Initial consultation. It usually contains the following activities: A set of tests depending on the program (fasting is mandatory). Consultation with a fertility specialist who will be in charge of your program (in case of stimulation you will need to have the transvaginal ultrasound check done). Consultation with a manager who will guide you through the program step by step. Signing of contracts. Before any initial consultation you will receive the Guidelines for the Initial Consultation – failure to follow these recommendations may affect the initial consultation in a negative way.
Search & confirmation of a surrogate mother, matching process. Waiting time depends on the type of contact. Stimulation & synchronisation stage (about 2 weeks). The cycle of egg donor or the biological mother is synchronised with the cycle of a surrogate mother. According to your contract you have to follow all doctors instruction. In case of self-treatment or violation of the treatment protocol, the clinic may cancel the cycle and terminate the contract. Fertilization day, embryo transfer - the 2nd visit. In case the biological mother undergoes hormonal stimulation and is being prepared for egg retrieval, the second visit may take up to 10 days. If we are talking about surrogacy using own eggs it is not recommended to leave the same day. Flying the following day is fine.The rules for sperm donation are similar as for the initial consultation – a man needs to abstain from ejaculation from 3 to 5 days before. After fertilisation the embryo development is monitored by embryology unit. The embryo transfer takes place on the 5th day. You will receive the protocol of embryo cultivation and transfer within 3 working days after the embryo transfer.
HCG test, pregnancy confirmation. Pregnancy monitoring. Delivery. Obtaining of the birth certificate for the baby (up to 1 week).


#16

Firslty, thank you for what you’re doing. Secondly, may I ask where are you from? Surrogacy law varies so much within countries which still allow it. If it’s the US for example, you’ll have to meet many requirements to qualify to be a surrogate. 21yrs old minimum. Financially stable. No govt. assistance…financial or medical. No drug/alcohol/tobacco use. Support system in place. Given birth and raising that child/ren. Pass psychological evaluation. Pass background checks. Pass medical screening. I believe this is not the easiest way to pass. You should consider things well for the process to be smooth and well regulated. Hope things will get on their places soon. Good luck!