Hubby and I are evaluating what our next steps are after a couple failed IVF cycles. We really want to have a family but I’m not sure about how valid an option Adoption is for us.
I’m afraid my Husband’s disability (quadriplegia) would severely decrease the likelihood that we’d get matched. What are the policies, realities of that?
I’m afraid we would have trouble bonding with the baby.
Not sure if we would like an “open adoption” but from lurking here it seems that’s the way people are going more often than not.
I will continue to learn by lurking but just thought maybe you guys could give us some thoughts.