So after talking with my FIL who’s a bankruptcy attorney for large corporations, he mentions that we could deduct any medical expenses as long as they are more than 7.5% of our annual gross income. SO my first thought was… well IVF was a medical expense does that count? After skimming the IRS web page it does in fact list IVF as tax deductible! Woohoo I included the link below, the part about IVF is under fertility treatments.
Hope someone else finds this as helpful as we did.