Appreciate any guidance / advise on IVF vs. FET
We did IVF#1 and we got a chemical pregnancy… Our initial decision was to do a FET with 2 frozen embiees…
However, given the clinic schedule our dates for FET are last week of Feb… such a long wait…plus we just have 2 frozen embiees…So if there is a problem with thaw etc I am worried that we will again waste these 3 months and our next date for a fresh will be in May or so of next year…
Our other option is to do a fresh right away (and keep the Frozen for later) and with a fresh I can get dates around January end. So it will be faster with a better chance of success.
At this stage all I care about is the result - bringing home my baby:-)
I am fine with the amount of effort behind IVF in comparision to the FET.
What do you girls think I should do? I am inclined to fresh given the results but my DH is inclined to a FET as he worries about the IVF stress.
Many of you have gone through this same decision and so I appreciate your input.