Hi - I know the fat lady hasn’t sung yet, but she’s practicing right now. I am just looking for advice on what to do next and what questions i need to be asking my doctor.
As you can see by my signature, we’ve been down a long road. I am feeling less than great about our chances of being pregnant right now. I’ve done tests to determine what could be wrong (no blocked tubes, uterus looks great, but low AMH), yet we are still unable to get pregnant. I am not sure if doing IVF is worth it again. We’ve spent 20 grand not including drugs, and all I have to show for it is gaining 15 pounds LOL. You would think they would give us a shirt saying “I did two rounds of IVF and all I have to show for it is this lousy shirt” - haha.
Is there any other kind of test I should be taking before deciding if IVF is worth spending money on again? Is there anything else that I could be missing? I feel like we are grasping for air in the dark.
Also, if we do IVF again, should I wait a month and start again (We did that this past time and I was shocked by the number of follies we had)? Or should we wait some time before trying? If so, how long?
As always, your advice and support is so welcomed and I am grateful for it. I’ve been away for a while just trying to focus on life and being happy and not worrying about getting pregnant, but now I find I can’t do it without y’all.