I just saw your post and thought I might be able to help. As you can see by my signature I have been trying for awhile and have been using donor sperm. I used Fairfax Cryobank. What I liked about Fairfax is that the made the donor profiles, which included medical info, available for free. You could also download baby pictures for a $5 fee. However, as Godiva mentioned, I had several samples with questionable counts. Most of the time they would refund the cost of the sample but not the shipping which could run $150-$200 dollars. My last sample had low counts which required me to be converted to ICSI for my IVF cycle. This added $2500 out of pocket expense for me. They also will not refund any money since I had a positive beta test and am pregnant (although it could be a chemical pregnancy).
There are lots of other banks out there. Many will match your husband’s pictures with available donors. There are lots of people who have to use donor sperm or donor embryos in their quest to have a baby. But, it isn’t for everyone and only you and your husband can decide that. Many couple choose not to tell that donor anything was used.
I look at using donor sperm as like adopting. If I adopted a baby, I would not know anything about the biological parents and so by using donor sperm I sort of adopted half of a baby.
I am not sure if I helped or not. But, there are threads on here about couples that used donor sperm that may help.
Good luck to you!!