I just had my baseline ultrasound and a little consult w/ my RE last week… I felt so much better emotionally about everything because she took the time to go over the statistics of pregnancy each month. I have been blaming myself each month for not being able to get pregnant since my DH’s numbers are perfect. However, I know my mom is just trying to help… but when I was telling her about my appt she goes “has she told you about how important it is to relax??? I really think you just need to calm down and let happen, happen.” Eh, she has told me to relax each cycle, and at this point, I’m not sure how much more I can take. Let alone other people saying the same thing.
I can honestly say each month I am optimistic about the cycle and think it’s going to work… the only time I get depressed and/or emotional is when AF arrives or I get a :bfn: . I told mom that it was easy for her to tell me to relax because she is not going through it.
Besides my own mind playing games on myself- I am hearing all these opinions elsewhere and it is driving me crazy!!! I’d rather people not say anything if they don’t know how to respond… usually we are just wanting someone to listen
Ok, I am done venting!! LOL