newie, need surro clinic


#1

Hello everyone,

I’m so thankful for finding this group I was starting to think completing my family was gonna be impossible…

Well my name is Kate, I’m poor woman, I was born with Rokitansky’s disease, without uterus I dnt wanna scare anybody or anything lol but Im just being open and honest as possible in hopes to complete my family.

Me and my fiancee of 3 years actually thought that we were gonna be bringing two little twin girls home wih us the beginning of the year but that actually fell through which was pretty devastating because we had planned and planned, prepared switched jobs and schedules and everything to ensure we were going to be the best parents we could be but things dnt always go as planned.

After being devastated for awhile I recently had a dream and the dream gave me the strength to continue my search to complete a happy Family, I’m not in a super rush to begin the process but I am however am in a rush to meet potential canidates and start to build a relationship because I plan on being involved every step of the way and would love to have a friendship even after.

Im located in Michigan but I’m willing to travel to surrofriendly nearby states and other countries

I just looking for clinic whre I can find my surro mother whos gonna bear for me a babe, itll be great if someone had such experience

Thank you guys so much for reading


#2

welcome here, though i’m a newbie to this site too!
oh my! that’s okay sweetie here are many women ready to support you and to give you helpful advice or share their experience. i can tell you that it’s much cheaper for you to go to europe rather than look for surromom in the usa. i compared many variants while trying to find the most appropriate so believe me if you are not ready to pay 80k so please welcome to europe. i wouldn’t advise you if i wasn’t sure it is so. i had one kid because of surrogacy and now going to have one more in the same clinic. i can tell you more info if you need it, but bear in mind that the most expensive package for surrogacy there is 50k euro, and it covers all the expenses except your tickets to that country.


#3

[QUOTE=“wilemmson, post: 1868846, member: 87417”]welcome here, though i’m a newbie to this site too!
oh my! that’s okay sweetie here are many women ready to support you and to give you helpful advice or share their experience. i can tell you that it’s much cheaper for you to go to europe rather than look for surromom in the usa. i compared many variants while trying to find the most appropriate so believe me if you are not ready to pay 80k so please welcome to europe. i wouldn’t advise you if i wasn’t sure it is so. i had one kid because of surrogacy and now going to have one more in the same clinic. i can tell you more info if you need it, but bear in mind that the most expensive package for surrogacy there is 50k euro, and it covers all the expenses except your tickets to that country.[/QUOTE]
Thanks a lot, yeah, its gonna be great if theyll give some advises, cool.
europe? its far away from my states but i can look on it, hows called your clinic by the way?
thank you sweetie


#4

[QUOTE=“katiesun, post: 1868847, member: 87419”]Thanks a lot, yeah, its gonna be great if theyll give some advises, cool.
europe? its far away from my states but i can look on it, hows called your clinic by the way?
thank you sweetie[/QUOTE]
although it’s far but it would be cheaper to travel there than try to find something in your country, i’m almost sure.
you can google Biotexcom, there you can find information about that clinic and they have all the details of their contracts on their website. if there is something you don’t understant, please ask, i’ll try to answer if i could.


#5

Hello Kate! I’m really sorry you have this disease. And I’m so sorry nothing worked out with your intention to become parents of twin girls. I know how painful it is to lose dream and hope which were with you for a long time and then everything simply collapse in a blink of an eye. I had 3 miscarriages in last 8 years. Doctors don’t know the reason why I can’t carry a baby. I’m scared to try again. It’s unbearable to loose children. I’m not sure I’ll cope with another loss. We are going to undergo surrogacy program. We will go to Ukraine in January. We want to visit a couple of clinics and choose the one which will suit us. I wish you to find your clinic asap! I hope we’ll become closer to our dream in the next year) I wish you Merry Christmas! I hope miracles will come to our homes and next year will be full of happiness! Here is my thread http://fertility.org/threads/surrogacy-abroad.141674/ I will update as soon as we’ll have any news.


#6

[QUOTE=“wilemmson, post: 1868849, member: 87417”]although it’s far but it would be cheaper to travel there than try to find something in your country, i’m almost sure.
you can google Biotexcom, there you can find information about that clinic and they have all the details of their contracts on their website. if there is something you don’t understant, please ask, i’ll try to answer if i could.[/QUOTE]
Hi yeah that much cheaper that here but im nor sure where i wonna go there 'cause i dont know that country at all and i cant say whether i will like it or no
but thanks for information ill look at it


#7

[QUOTE=“ellinna, post: 1868854, member: 87393”]Hello Kate! I’m really sorry you have this disease. And I’m so sorry nothing worked out with your intention to become parents of twin girls. I know how painful it is to lose dream and hope which were with you for a long time and then everything simply collapse in a blink of an eye. I had 3 miscarriages in last 8 years. Doctors don’t know the reason why I can’t carry a baby. I’m scared to try again. It’s unbearable to loose children. I’m not sure I’ll cope with another loss. We are going to undergo surrogacy program. We will go to Ukraine in January. We want to visit a couple of clinics and choose the one which will suit us. I wish you to find your clinic asap! I hope we’ll become closer to our dream in the next year) I wish you Merry Christmas! I hope miracles will come to our homes and next year will be full of happiness! Here is my thread http://fertility.org/threads/surrogacy-abroad.141674/ I will update as soon as we’ll have any news.[/QUOTE]
thanks for your words, sorry to hear 'bout your problem i hope everything gonna be great and keep your chin up
yeah, happy hollidays too, hoping theybring us good vibes, ill look at your thread
sure ill find something important for me but i will put another way im nor sure whether i wonna go there 'cause i dont know that country at all and i cant say whether i will like it or no


#8

[QUOTE=“katiesun, post: 1868859, member: 87419”]Hi yeah that much cheaper that here but im nor sure where i wonna go there 'cause i dont know that country at all and i cant say whether i will like it or no
but thanks for information ill look at it[/QUOTE]

i understand you perfectly, coz when i decided to go there it was also very strange to me. but you know it’s not a problem at all. many couples all over the world come to this clinic hoping to have a baby and it was like a good reason for me not to be afraid of such way for becoming a mother. the country is pretty nice, people are kind there. of course, you can’t expect that everyone will understand you, not everybody knows english there but when you need it most, you’ll have an interpreter, i mean in a clinic.


#9

[QUOTE=“wilemmson, post: 1868861, member: 87417”]i understand you perfectly, coz when i decided to go there it was also very strange to me. but you know it’s not a problem at all. many couples all over the world come to this clinic hoping to have a baby and it was like a good reason for me not to be afraid of such way for becoming a mother. the country is pretty nice, people are kind there. of course, you can’t expect that everyone will understand you, not everybody knows english there but when you need it most, you’ll have an interpreter, i mean in a clinic.[/QUOTE]
will i have a interpreter? that’s cool i mean
what else will i have coz im not really know about it
wouldyou be so kind and enlight me
hows look like tat clinic?


#10

[QUOTE=“katiesun, post: 1868865, member: 87419”]will i have a interpreter? that’s cool i mean
what else will i have coz im not really know about it
wouldyou be so kind and enlight me
hows look like tat clinic?[/QUOTE]

yeah, you will when you need to have a conversation with your doctor or a surrogate mother. :slight_smile:
the clinic looks like a small castle, it’s really tiny and there are always loads of people. very often i encounter negative reviews referred to long lines but as for me it’s not a problem at all. well if i want to have a baby and i couldn’t become pregnant for years it’s not a crime to wait for an hour to meet a doctor. Btw, the only thing i was concerned about was our doctor i mean her age. If I’m not mistaken our dr was Yulia Kotlik and it seems to me she is not more than 25 yo or so. But she is a pretty good specialist and she definitely knows her job. What else can I tell you?


#11

[QUOTE=“katiesun, post: 1868845, member: 87419”]Hello everyone,

I’m so thankful for finding this group I was starting to think completing my family was gonna be impossible…

Well my name is Kate, I’m poor woman, I was born with Rokitansky’s disease, without uterus I dnt wanna scare anybody or anything lol but Im just being open and honest as possible in hopes to complete my family.

Me and my fiancee of 3 years actually thought that we were gonna be bringing two little twin girls home wih us the beginning of the year but that actually fell through which was pretty devastating because we had planned and planned, prepared switched jobs and schedules and everything to ensure we were going to be the best parents we could be but things dnt always go as planned.

After being devastated for awhile I recently had a dream and the dream gave me the strength to continue my search to complete a happy Family, I’m not in a super rush to begin the process but I am however am in a rush to meet potential canidates and start to build a relationship because I plan on being involved every step of the way and would love to have a friendship even after.

Im located in Michigan but I’m willing to travel to surrofriendly nearby states and other countries

I just looking for clinic whre I can find my surro mother whos gonna bear for me a babe, itll be great if someone had such experience

Thank you guys so much for reading[/QUOTE]
Hi, dear
I want to tell you everything will be ok. A lot of women experienced such problems but it’s not a cause to give up, hoping you’ll find your star in the darkness.
This forum can help you, i know it becuae I found a lot of people who had same issues with health as me.
Big hug XXX


#12

[QUOTE=“almaek, post: 1868875, member: 87392”]Hi, dear
I want to tell you everything will be ok. A lot of women experienced such problems but it’s not a cause to give up, hoping you’ll find your star in the darkness.
This forum can help you, i know it becuae I found a lot of people who had same issues with health as me.
Big hug XXX[/QUOTE]
Thnks i appreciate ypur help, i didnt really understand what the probl you have but i agree lots of women has problem as me. thanks god they gonna be goood with modern meds


#13

[QUOTE=“wilemmson, post: 1868871, member: 87417”]yeah, you will when you need to have a conversation with your doctor or a surrogate mother. :slight_smile:
the clinic looks like a small castle, it’s really tiny and there are always loads of people. very often i encounter negative reviews referred to long lines but as for me it’s not a problem at all. well if i want to have a baby and i couldn’t become pregnant for years it’s not a crime to wait for an hour to meet a doctor. Btw, the only thing i was concerned about was our doctor i mean her age. If I’m not mistaken our dr was Yulia Kotlik and it seems to me she is not more than 25 yo or so. But she is a pretty good specialist and she definitely knows her job. What else can I tell you?[/QUOTE]
Yulia Kotik , hmm let’s see, im just wondering if she so young as you said how could i trust her
of course people can tell everything i don’t mind. how many people go there every day? you said its tiny its uncomfortable to stay in a queque, how can i avoid it. and if i want to come with my cat is it ok there?


#14

[QUOTE=“katiesun, post: 1868880, member: 87419”]Thnks i appreciate ypur help, i didnt really understand what the probl you have but i agree lots of women has problem as me. thanks god they gonna be goood with modern meds[/QUOTE]
I have serious problems with the hear and my doctor didn’t allow my to bear the child, that’s why i opted for a surro program in hoping to find my happines. the usual story of infertile woman. I tried and tried and gained what I wanted,now I’m the mother of my beautiful child. hope you’ll have the same


#15

[QUOTE=“almaek, post: 1868886, member: 87392”]I have serious problems with the hear and my doctor didn’t allow my to bear the child, that’s why i opted for a surro program in hoping to find my happines. the usual story of infertile woman. I tried and tried and gained what I wanted,now I’m the mother of my beautiful child. hope you’ll have the same[/QUOTE]
yeah hope dies last, right? haha i’m kidding 'cause i’m so devastated and jokes are my last meds.


#16

[QUOTE=“katiesun, post: 1868889, member: 87419”]yeah hope dies last, right? haha i’m kidding 'cause i’m so devastated and jokes are my last meds.[/QUOTE]
that’s ok, hope everything will be great. good luck


#17

[QUOTE=“katiesun, post: 1868881, member: 87419”]Yulia Kotik , hmm let’s see, im just wondering if she so young as you said how could i trust her
of course people can tell everything i don’t mind. how many people go there every day? you said its tiny its uncomfortable to stay in a queque, how can i avoid it. and if i want to come with my cat is it ok there?[/QUOTE]

Mybe she is older I don’t know but she looks young. the only reason, and i think the vital one, is that she knows what she is doing, young expert. it’s like commmon situation, when kids of 3-4 yo can use pc and smartphones better than their parents haha.
yeah it’s a bit uncomfortable but if you have an appointment with a doctor then it must be at precise time, so you won’t wait in a queue unless previous couple is staying there for too long.
Oh, you want believe but we also wanted to take our cat there. not because i can’t live without him for a few days but because we have no one to feed him while we are absent. but fortunately, my dh’s cousine agreed attending our Fluffy lol. I asked managers about such an ooption and I was told that i can take everyone and everything to Kiev but the clinic doesn’t cover the expenses meant to someone except you and your hasband. if you want to take a cat then you need to look for another hotel with such option and pay on your own.


#18

[QUOTE=“wilemmson, post: 1868895, member: 87417”]Mybe she is older I don’t know but she looks young. the only reason, and i think the vital one, is that she knows what she is doing, young expert. it’s like commmon situation, when kids of 3-4 yo can use pc and smartphones better than their parents haha.
yeah it’s a bit uncomfortable but if you have an appointment with a doctor then it must be at precise time, so you won’t wait in a queue unless previous couple is staying there for too long.
Oh, you want believe but we also wanted to take our cat there. not because i can’t live without him for a few days but because we have no one to feed him while we are absent. but fortunately, my dh’s cousine agreed attending our Fluffy lol. I asked managers about such an ooption and I was told that i can take everyone and everything to Kiev but the clinic doesn’t cover the expenses meant to someone except you and your hasband. if you want to take a cat then you need to look for another hotel with such option and pay on your own.[/QUOTE]
U dissapoined me a bit i wanna to take my mr Soft paws to clinic//
what im gonna do? pay for myself, hmm but what if i be a vip client or sort of this the same attitute?
how can i contact manager ?


#19

Hello.
It may be disappointing i know, but the rules are the same for everybody. the clinic doesn’t work with every hotel and those which provide rooms for clients don’t allow their residents to have pets there that’s why we have some limitations. if you have vip contract then you don’t live in a hotel but in a large apartment and you need to specify if it’s possible but don’t expect much. You can contact a manager by email, it’s on their website


#20

Like mannamay just wrote, the hotels a clinic provides you with don’t have such a service, and that means you need to find a place for staying wit your cat on your own.