Please Help Me give my Wife the Christmas Miracle she deserves!


#1

I am not sure is its OK for husbands to post on here and I am sorry if its not but I really need help in giving my wife the Christams Miracle she deserves. She has always talked about how wonderful and supportive you all have been to her so I thought this would be the place to come to for help. This is my first time being on a forum and I have looked around a little and do not understand most of the abbreviations so please bear with me. This is also something I am not used to talking about and it is a little uncomfortable, but for her I will do anything!
We have been trying to have a baby for 5 years now. since we met at the age of 16 it’s all she has ever wanted. We went to a fertility doctor 2 years ago and I found out I have a lot of problems with my sperm. Its something that I still have a hard time accepting. The doctors told us our best chance was with in vitro, but neither one of our insurances will pay for it. But they did cover inseminations so we gave that about 6 trys and none of them worked. This year we used a lot of our saving to do the in virtro but my wife miscarried. We had 3 embryo frozen so we transfered those and she miscarried again. As much as it hurt to lose the pregnancies seeing her heartbreak was so much worse. After some testing we found out we have some antibody issues, I don’t know the exact name but our doctor said they can defintely help us. The problem is we cannot afford to do another in vitro right now. For the past several months she has been so depresed because she feels like there is no hope. And she only has 1 ovary that she could lose at anytime due to cysts so taking a few years to save more money is not really an option. Then we found out our fertility clinic was giving away a free cycle. We had to write about everything we have been through and share it with the public. Right away Victoria, my wife wanted to do it. I on the other hand was not so sure, I didn’t want all of our personal information out there for all to see. But knowing this was our only hope I agreed. We got picked as one of the finalists and now we need people to vote for us to win.
I am putting the link at the bottom but voting is only open until Monday. We really need your help! I do not have a lot of family and Victoria’s is not very supportive of us doing fertility treatments so we don’t have many people voting for us. It hurts me as a man to have to ask other people to help us with something like this. I feel like a failure for not making enough money to be able to pay for this on my own. So I am beeging you to help us. Victoria has a heart of gold and will make the most amazing mother. When ever she is around children her whole face lights up. She really deserves this so please just take a second to vote. It really only takes a minute and you don’t have to give any information.
Thank you so much and I hope all of you find success in becoming parents.

Sher Fertility Institute Facebook IVF Giveaway | Sher Institute for Reproductive Medicine
click on Victoria and Walter

Thank you and happy holidays…Walter


#2

You sound like a great husband! She is very lucky. As I tell myself every day how I am so lucky to have a husband like mine who is also welling to do what it takes to have a family of our own. I voted for you and I hope it gives you your little miracle. Good luck!!


#3

Voted. I wish you both nothing but the best!


#4

I voted from my computer the other day. And from my phone just now. You should put out a craigslist ad in some of the bigger cities. Good luck!


#5

You made me cry, enough said. What a sweet, loving, husband you are! My vote just went in for you, wishing you both amazing success and the most beautiful baby in your arms one day soon. God Bless!


#6

Your wife is very lucky to have you. I, too, was brought to tears reading both your post and your story. I wish you both the very best of luck. :cheer:


#7

Done!!! What a wonderful husband, hope she gets her Christmas miracle!

Farah


#8

Voted for you! Good luck! Christmas is a time for miracle!