Started the POAS nightmare


#1

So I am 4dp5dt and my first HPT is negative. I know it is still early but I need some reassuring from you ladies that it isn’t over yet. The only reason I’m worrying is bc with the last bfp cycle I had, I had a faint faint line at 4dp5dt. I’m already starting to have the negative feelings and I want to be positive but it’s so hard after this many failed.


#2

With my daughter (my only successful pregnancy), I didnt get a positive until 6dp5dt and beta on 9dp5dt was 45. 5 days later on 14dpt it was only 46. You never know what will happen. Dont lose hope!!


#3

When you get your bfp is dependent upon the embryo, not on you – so you can’t judge at all by past cycles. Chin up!! Crossing my fingers for you!


#4

:grouphug: Yeah, some times it shows up early and sometimes not. With my DD (now 2) I had no positive sign til 15dpo and then my first IVF, I got it 7dp3dt, but this one, I think it was 6dp5dt. Your definately not out of the game yet, so chin up and enjoy being PUPO!


#5

Poas again this morning 5dp5dt and bfn. At this point I’m hoping that bc I had 2 early blasts transferred I’m just a little behind and this is not the 7th failed cycle :frowning:


#6

Also, since last night I have been having “twinges” of small sharp pain on my left side of my abdomen. They last a matter of a second or so, could this be the PIO or a sign of something bad happening?


#7

This is crazy I’ve been feeling the exact same thing and I also poas this morning 5dp5dt and it was negative. I also feel so down I cant even smile I feel so down. Idk if its suppose to feel this way I was so positive at the beginning and now am just down. Hope everyone is right and we are both just testing to early :grouphug:


#8

I also had a :bfn: on 5dp5dt and thought this cycle was over. I ended up getting a faint line on 6dp5dt and a pregnant on a digital this Morning. Try and stay positive! I also had twinges and cramping! I also did not get a :bfp: with my son until the night before my test since my levels were low.He is now 3!

GOOD LUCK!


#9

[QUOTE=kristyn78]I also had a :bfn: on 5dp5dt and thought this cycle was over. I ended up getting a faint line on 6dp5dt and a pregnant on a digital this Morning. Try and stay positive! I also had twinges and cramping! I also did not get a :bfp: with my son until the night before my test since my levels were low.He is now 3!

GOOD LUCK![/QUOTE]

Congratulations on you bfp. You make me feel better these pains are stressing me out I know I shouldn’t let it get to me or over think it. But since I haven’t had any success yet Im so scared.

I also have this terrible head ache :frowning:


#10

I also had a horrible headache the night before I tested. I had that with my son also. It could be your hcg rising!
This 2ww is the worst and we analyze everything! Try and stay positive!


#11

[QUOTE=Ally6181]Also, since last night I have been having “twinges” of small sharp pain on my left side of my abdomen. They last a matter of a second or so, could this be the PIO or a sign of something bad happening?[/QUOTE]

Twinges are likely just the PIO and/or your ovaries returning to normal or even due to being filled with fluid from the cycle and the extra progesterone.

I had alot of twinges and pulling and even cramping with my positive IVF cycle.

It really is too early to count yourself out though. With my IVF I had a BFN on both 5 & 6dp5dt. I got a very faint + on 7dp5dt and an obvious but still light + on 8dp5dt.

It all just depends on when the embryo implants and how fast it really imbeds how much HCG it puts off and thus how quickly it shows up on an HPT. I have even seen many ladies on here get a bfn the day just prior to their beta and yet still get a positive beta so…

Hang in there. :grouphug:

:cross: you get your BFP this cycle!! :babydust: :babydust:


#12

Ok guys, I’m a POAS-aholic!

as in… twice a day. Yes I’m crazy.

And it was recommended that I not do HPTs until at least 6dp5dt. But I woke up and did it the morning of the 4dp5dt and holy ca-mole, :bfp: , NOT what I expected! Today, 5dp5dt much darker. Crap. You think so soon could mean high hcg=twins? I’m not sure my 5 foot frame is ready for this! Let’s just :cross: that there’s no chemical or m/c…

:babydust: :babydust: to you all for your BFPs too!


#13

[QUOTE=bluestarshells]Ok guys, I’m a POAS-aholic!

as in… twice a day. Yes I’m crazy.

And it was recommended that I not do HPTs until at least 6dp5dt. But I woke up and did it the morning of the 4dp5dt and holy ca-mole, :bfp: , NOT what I expected! Today, 5dp5dt much darker. Crap. You think so soon could mean high hcg=twins? I’m not sure my 5 foot frame is ready for this! Let’s just :cross: that there’s no chemical or m/c…

:babydust: :babydust: to you all for your BFPs too![/QUOTE]

:clap: congratulations on your :bfp: I guess you are one of the lucky ones that gets it so early. How many did you transfer ?

Ally6181- how are you feeling ??


#14

Update- So I am currently 6dp5dt and I POAS this morning and there is a faint line… so hoping and praying tomorrow brings a darker one. My beta is scheduled for tues. 6/18 so I just have to keep my fingers crossed. Tomorrow is my birthday so I am hoping to have the best gift ever!!! Thank you all for your kind words and encouragement!!!


#15

[QUOTE=Ally6181]Update- So I am currently 6dp5dt and I POAS this morning and there is a faint line… so hoping and praying tomorrow brings a darker one. My beta is scheduled for tues. 6/18 so I just have to keep my fingers crossed. Tomorrow is my birthday so I am hoping to have the best gift ever!!! Thank you all for your kind words and encouragement!!![/QUOTE]

Congrats! That’s great news. Seems like you do better with fets that fresh cycles! Happy birthday and :pray: this one stays sticky for you!


#16

I’m following your story and very hopeful for you! Best of luck on Tuesday :slight_smile:


#17

I am also following your story! Keep us updated! Best wishes! :cross:


#18

I am also following your story! Keep us updated! Best wishes! :cross:


#19

I am also following your story! Keep us updated! Best wishes! :cross:


#20

I am also following your story! Keep us updated! Best wishes! :cross: