I was chatting with an acquaintence today (who just had a baby) and she was complaining about money problems. She asked me why my DH and I haven’t had any children yet and I told her that we weren’t sure we wanted any (we have decided to keep our infertility private). She responded by telling me that that was a selfish decision and that all we care about is money!
I was shocked and before I could say anything she walked away.
Is anyone here also choosing to keep their infertility struggles private? If so, how do you handle the ignorance of people who don’t know? It’s very frusterating.