hi. This forum was incredible when we were TTC #1. He just turned two. I’m almost 40 and we cannot afford IVF again. For other reasons I don’t want to. We have two snowbabies, long story. … So I’m just wanting to talk about what it’s like to try but not try TTC vs HTC (hoping to conceive) when the chances without treatnet are slim. Im going crazy, life’s cruel sense of humor has me 11 days late on a regular never skipped cycle… bfn, again. It’s awful every month not trying but not avoiding and every month wondering- maybe-- and having symptoms but then nothing… And wanting another but at the same time unsure… But I don’t have the luxury of waiting too much longer, I’ve been peri menopausal since 2010… Anyway. Maybe someone is relieved reading this post and wants to share too.
Baby dust to ALL.