TTC positively


#1

HI Friends,
I am new to this forum. I am 31 my husband is 35. We are trying to conceive since last year. After trying 9-10 months last year, we decide to get help of a gynecologist. I went through ultra-sounds, LSH,FSH testing. My husband too had his tests. In the testing we came to know that my husband had varicocele vein at the left side. He got operated this year, it’s been 3 months since the operation. We are planning now his semen analysis and see if number, motility has increased. We are hopeful and also decided to talk to doctor again.
My all fertility tests are not done yet. We decided to treat varicocele problem first since it came out in Test. Now he is treated, need to see if it is really increasing effective swimmers.
I would like to be frank and share that i do get depressed, get all self - doubts, get mad, crazy after getting my periods each time, since we have been trying. Today is that same day. Sometimes I think, IUI would be best option for me. But I remind myself, that my doctor, me and my husband together will decide what’s best for us.

Glad that I found this forum to share my thoughts and also get to know other’s thoughts, feelings.
I wish good, positive thoughts for everyone.


#2

HI All,
Last year we started seeing Ob/gyn in October and got a glimpse whole new world related to fertility, tests etc. Outcome of last year’s tests was that me and my husband came across our first obstacle named - vericocele. My doctor did not say a word to me about my tests, how was I doing.
Now this year we have taken appointment of another specialist, and now that my husband is treated we will have to see how much he is treated and decide our strategy accordingly. May be I will undergo fertility related tests. But this time I have made a note to myself that if doctor does not tell me, then I need to ask. We have few of my reports from last year’s testing too. Hoping for the best.
Last year we started seeing Ob/Gyn to see where I stand, are there any problems, what is good what is bad in my system. I cannot say that my all questions were un-answered. I am happy that at-least that we were able to find our very first obstacle and treat it. Will keep posted.


#3

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#4

I am sorry for what your husband is going through. It might be difficult for him. Now that your results are not yet out too. I can guess how anxious you are. But you should not worry. Be calm. I believe things will work in your favor. Just be patient till all results are out. From there you will know what the problem is. If it is something that you can fix then do so. If not, we have various ways to conceive too. You need to sit down with your husband and doctor to discuss that. You can first try the natural way. If it does not work out you can opt for ART’s. We have IUI as the way you have mentioned. It can be a way to help you guys. Just air your thoughts and see what others would think of it. But the doctor should take you through a step to step decision. This will help you choose what’s best for you two. But if you ever think of surrogacy, here is the best place


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