Why do people tell me “you can always adopt”??? I am so sick of feeling like ok well I want to share that I am having fertility problems and that’s the first thing out of people’s mouths!!! Imma need you to just be supportive and not try to fix my problems. It’s bad enough that you don’t understand nor know the entire story, then for you to try to solve my problem by saying stupid ish to me really makes me angry. :af:
What if I don’t want to adopt? What if I’m not even thinking adoption because I haven’t given up on myself yet? You have just made me feel worse about my whole situation when all I wanted was support from you. THIS IS EXACTLY WHY I DON’T TALK TO ANYONE ABOUT THIS. People wonder why infertility is something that isn’t widely talked about…hmmm I have a few reasons right here. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!