Hi Ladies -
Just wanted to share some opinions/experiences for fun. I feel like us fertility women go thru so much anxiety even after we get our BFPs. Most women I know who have not had fertility problems get excited and start planning for baby once the pee dries! I’m just wondering…when did you finally “exhale” and say “Yay! I’m really going to have a baby!” How many weeks were you? Or was it not until you had the little one in your arms? What did it take to get to that point?
For me…after a m/c in my past pregnancy I was a frantic anxiety ridden mess the first 12 weeks. Every ultrasound I would go in for they would take my blood pressure and it would be so high due to nerves. I was just waiting for that bad news…after 12 weeks I felt a little more comfortable and we started telling people. But then I started spotting…till about 15 weeks! I was a nervous wreck again. I am finally almost 20 weeks and had my mid-pregnancy scan (everything looked good!) and for the first time feeling like I AM HAVING TWO BABIES! And I can finally at least breath and get ready for their birth.